About Codependency

BEYOND Codependency Road-Map

Do You Wonder?

Did your codependent self wake up today and say...
  • Is this what the rest of my life is going to look and feel like?
  • How many more times am I going to allow this to happen?
  • Who am I beyond a codependent rescuer?
  • Will it ever get better?
  • Why do I feel guilty for wanting to do something that I like to do?
  • What do I like to do?
  • Will I ever stop feeling empty?
  • I give and give and have nothing left for me!

These questions and many more are part of an awakening within yourself. It's your Inner Voice nudging you. Take heed. It may also be that you've hit YOUR bottom even if "they" haven't hit theirs. Everyone's bottom is unique to them.

It's estimated that 158,200 Americans die each year from alcohol and drug addiction.

We can easily multiply that number by 2 or 3 to figure out how many codependent people (men, women, children) are left to clean up the mess once again. 

Just as addictions are progressive in nature, so is codependency. We are addicted to the addicted. Addicted to the chaos. But at some point we crash and burn too.

The GOOD News - Their is Life BEYOND Codependency

I've been where you are.  I gave all I have to keep "them" safe from themselves. Creating a safe place for them to fall in absence of my own well-being.

I woke up one day and asked the questions above. Then I did the footwork to footwork, developing a road-map for moving BEYOND codependency, and I'm ready to share what you need to know to go BEYOND codependency too. To be the person you DESERVE to be. Doing the things you DESERVE to do. Living the life you DESERVE to live.

Your life is sketchy right now.  But, you can and should create the life YOU want on YOUR terms. All it takes is motivation, a road-map, the proper tools, resources, and support.  I can give you all of that.

Take this moment to do something for YOURSELF. Follow the link below and get on my calendar for a FREE BEYOND Discovery Session below.  Your time is NOW.  Talk to you soon.

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Your Journey BEYOND Codependency

Are You Tired of what NORMAL looks and feels like?

If you've been tagged as codependent by either yourself, friends, family, or society, have you ever wondered how you got there?

  • It's probably something you began doing as a child. You wanted to please or help someone or control or change an outcome of a situation. This was what is normal for you.
  • You don't have to have a family member that is an alcoholic to be codependent. There are plenty of other addictions out there. Like medications, eating, shopping, narcotics, untreated mental illness, abuse, neglect and list goes on and on.
  • It may not even be a family member you're codependent to. It could be your boss a neighbor, friend or all of the above.
  • You'll inevitably pass your codependent tendencies onto your children because they see their lives as normal too.

Well, I want you to know that codependents are STRONG - very strong! You are a SURVIVOR and ADAPTIVE. Codependency is a way to COPE with the craziness going on around you. 

One key distinction between care-giving and codependency is that you are so invested in "them" that you neglect taking care of yourself. Without realizing it, you don't have a sense of identity for yourself. Who are YOU?

LOVE The Life You're Living

"Up Until Now"

Life is broken down into 4 areas; relationships, health and wellness, career, and time money freedom.  Most people LOVE (as they define it) one or two of the areas of their life.

Which area are you having the most difficult time with right this minute? What keeps you up at night with worry?

What if you could LOVE (as you define it) every area of your life.  Amazing right? 

Your Possibilities Are Endless.

Even though life gets in the way at times, the Universe is hard at work trying to bring love, joy and peace into it. Be open to receiving. Whatever comes may seem so far out of reach. But that's where your growth and transformation happens.

"Up until now" and "This or Something Better" ~ Mary Morrissey

So when LIFE tries to get in the way, stop and say "Up Until Now..........".  Facing our problems head-on. Change your course in life in a split second by breaking old patterns of thinking being and doing.  Always ask the Universe for "This or Something Better".

I believe in you! You found this website for a reason! You are destined to live a life anyway, so live it by design instead of by default. 

It's Your Time

I invite you to a Free BEYOND Discovery Session meet-up. Just click the button marked "Your Link To My Calendar", below. Pick a date and time that works for you. I look forward to talking to you soon!

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MY STORY

Memories of my family life, before the age of 7 were that my father was my hero; my guardian; my world. My mother was caring but distant.

My sisters, who are 6 and 8 years older than I, have different perceptions of our family dynamic. I was 30+ years old before I was told, by my sister, that our father was an alcoholic. For a long time I thought she was lying. 

As I look back on my adolescent years, I now see I was very lonely. I was not allowed to have friends. I changed schools every two years due to moving. I adapted myself to my surroundings and made this my normal. 

My father passed away when I was in my late teens. Now I sought other males to become my hero, my guardian, my world. I put my whole self into being who or what they wanted me to be. One disaster after another!

I was 26 before I married. He came from an alcoholic family too and became one himself. We were married for 22 years and we had two wonderful sons. But once the children were out of the house I felt empty and didn't know what to do with myself. We divorced.

Of course I got into other relationships that were doomed, but I was not sure why until I became aware of what codependency was and the impact it had on my whole life, all the way back to my childhood. 

Since that time, I have gone on to study codependency. I wanted to be able to help other women who are struggling with its effects to figure out who they are beyond codependent. The coaching curriculum I have been certified in by the Life Mastery Institute is the same curriculum I used those many years ago to find myself, to figure out who I am and what I want from life.

I have moved BEYOND codependency. And I know you can too. 

Your next step is to click the button below that says "Your Link To My Calendar". I'll send you a ZOOM link and we will have a conversation. No pressure!

Don't abandon your feelings. Let's talk!

Schedule a free BEYOND Discovery Session

 

You may be hesitant to click a button to talk to someone you have never met, but I assure you, I will not bite. This is a friendly conversation. Only if we feel we are a good match and the programs I offer will help you, will I fill you in on the details.